Conflicts have their origin in
something you want to achieve (and you don’t know how) or something you want to
keep on (in spite of threats or skilfulness of others).To look for a solution is necessary to put in evidence what we have in common. To look
for what both parties have in common is the only way to reach an agreement.Integration is looking for a solution where the desires of both parties have a place, and neither side has to sacrifice anything.To weigh
up all the choices, to check up both, the ones we are for and those we are not
in favour of will open the road for truth searching and stronger, unambiguous
and superior values. “Peace is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to cope with it”