In my own opinion, there’s not a whole lot you can do about trying to change others, the only you can change is yourself. So stop frustration trying to control collaborators and teammates and put your efforts into inspiring and influencing teammates by changing yourself: listen to your employees to be able to motivate, respect them, attempt to give them positive strokes and you will become a leader. “There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self.” (Aldous Huxley)”